I do want to be clear about this blog post. It’s about the teaching we received and the way that we are chewing through it. It’s long, but I think you’ll get some insight into what we are learning. We love you all!
Short Term commitments = short term results.
Floyd dropped that bomb on us during class a week ago and since then my head has been spinning. We’ve been here for 2+ months and we’ve seen great things happen. We’ve seen salvation, people reading the bible for the first time, people getting healed and getting jobs for the first time in their life. Despite all of this, regardless of how many days and months we stay here, we will always be in a short term mentality until we make long term commitments and have a long term attitude.
We were told two weeks ago that churches can’t realistically be formed in less than 1-2 years. How frustrating is that? We are at a school teaching us how to do church planting, when the actual school term is shorter than the minimum time needed to start a single church.
But here is why that time is so important. Here is why long term mentality is so key (according to our teachings)…
Short Term mission trips, experiences and commitments are more about ourselves then they are about the people we serve.
That felt so self serving, and I bet many of you automatically disagree with this statement. I hated the idea that I couldn’t be selfless in my pursuit of God’s Kingdom short term, and I hated the idea that their weren’t massive exceptions. What about hurricane relief trips, beach reach, grief counseling, etc. But as I wrestled through it, God gave me a bit of wisdom. Serving short term (less than 2 years or so) does not mean that we are not serving people and providing for their felt needs. I guarantee that thousands of lives have been changed, altered, rebuilt and renewed by the actions of obedience to God’s wishes in short term mission trips. What I believe now, is that those lives were altered because those people were 1st) acting in obedience and 2nd) Went with Long Term Attitude.
In my opinion, and I recognize that I am no expert (understatement), short term trips teach us how to be effective for God in the Long term. That means it teaches us how to build relationships, live in Christian community, pray, worship, sew the gospel and serve people in the place that God puts us more permanently. These skills could be effective within the sphere of a full time job or as full time cross cultural church planters, it doesn’t matter In the process we are transformed into the image of Christ. This is a good situation for everyone.
Questions of the week:
1) What does it mean to have a long term mentality?
2) What do you think David Watson means when he says WE get more out of short term trips then those we serve do?
3) Unrelated question… Can we expect non Christians to change their behaviors or patterns pre conversion? Examples: Men beat their wives, their girlfriends here. Also, 6 years olds are given alcohol by their parents.
The more consistent my conduct and activity on short term trips is consistent with how I would act on long term, the better. All I can say at this point is that Long Term attitude seems to involve deep commitment to a community, to relationships within that community, and patience. We must be sensitive to those around us, which means not shying away from growing close to people and sharing your heart. Vulnerability seems to be key in having a long term focus. Without it, you risk being prideful and damaging those you are trying to serve.
God can break through on short term trips to produce long term benefits. Have faith and believe God for fruit whether or not you are on for short or long term. There’s more to it and I am still gathering my thoughts. I’ve learned much of this in my experience in Red Hill. This is not easy, but it’s so rewarding.
That is not to say that God doesn’t and hasn’t worked miracles in speeding up this process. We pray for those things every day. Even what we’re learning feels miraculous. David Watson has started a movement which has started many others, and in 15 years they have 6,000,000 baptisms. That is NUTS.
So where does this process begin, whether short term or long term? Relationships!!! The beginning of relationship building is slow because it’s relational, and involves love and commitment. Only God can circumvent the process and often times God wants to bless you in that relationship just as much as he wants to bless them. You must learn to love them if you expect to see fruit.
No school for that. Just experience. The Spice Island should be good for us, however being there for two months means we are once again in a “full time” short term experience. So our biggest prayer request is that we would be obedient to God’s will and voice in our time there, and that we would go expecting to love and serve them patiently, quietly and relationally. We want lives to change, healings, and conversion of course, but those are all God willing.
Prayer Requests:
– For both of us to grow in our TRUST in God.
– For God to continue guiding us to our future after CPX, and pave the way for us to have a place to live, jobs, community, etc.
– That God would give us wisdom and use us to powerfully bless people in Red Hill in these last weeks. Continue to pray for Natasha and the kids group, for Lungile and nZukeswa as Michael empowers and encourages them to be leaders in their community.
– Please pray for healing for Mildred, an amazingly sweet lady in Red Hill who has blessed Allison so much. We found out recently that she was “very sick,” although we got no details on what the sickness was – probably AIDS.
– As above, that we would be obedient to God’s will and voice in our time in the Spice Island. That God would be preparing the way for us. For health, safety and smooth logistics while we are there.
– And for our marriage! We are happy and growing a lot in learning how to be married
We love you all! Please write us soon.
Love
The Sherwins
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